Moving Memorial For Caylee Anthony

A few notes on Caylee Anthony’s memorial. Today a sorrowful event was held in Orlando at The First Baptist Church. The church seats up to 5,ooo. Attendance at today’s memorial was approximately 12oo.  The attendees that came were compassionate and were truly there to say good-bye to the little girl who has stole our hearts.  Caylee Marie Anthony just 2 years old when she passed away in a traumatic way.

No one can fathom what this family has endured unless this has happened to you or your family. For George, Cindy, and Lee my heart goes out to you all. Your pain was very prevalent today as you spoke and we wept. They claimed to be united and to stand strong. And they need to, the road ahead is long and is filled with quite a bit of anguish.

The tribute today was kind and heartfelt. The family spoke one by one with Lee leading off. He thanked everyone and asked us to fill our hearts with patience and grace. He asked us that whatever we take from today, whatever it is that we seek to pay tribute to Caylee. He mentioned the initals CMA only. He did not say Caylee’s name nor did he say Casey’s name. He kissed three times the bracelet that he wore all while saying C M A.

George was wearing pride on his sleeve as he spoke of his little granddaughter. He beamed as he spoke of Caylee’s presence still being around. He was Jo-Jo to her. He cherished the times that he had with her. He remembered fondly the popcorn they ate together, and the fun she was with her beads ans sunglasses. And he reflected with smiles as he told the gathering how Caylee loved her vegetables! She was his “sunshine” and he taught her the song “You are my sunshine”. He also mentioned in Gods heaven he will be with her again.

Then George shifted to Casey and asked for prayers saying she deserved prayers. He asked the gathering to write her letters and he petitioned the group to not pass judgement. And to ask for hope and prayer for all of us.  He received a standing ovation.

Then Cindy came up and remembered as well the day that Casey came to her and told her she was going to be a grandmother. She reflected that Caylee got up in the morning smiling. She told of the tea parties that Caylee would have. And mentioned her dress up play, and her love of music, and loved to go into the pool with Caylee. She expressed that those were some of her favorite times. She also said good night to the stars and moon. She too shifted to Casey and thanked Casey for giving her the gift of Caylee. Cindy said she will miss the love that was shared between Caylee and Casey. She stated that she got her beauty and compassion from Casey. And finally that Caylee knew that she was loved. And that Cindy loved all of her children unconditionally. At her end of eulogy she asked the group to do something positive; to make a difference. She too got a standing ovation.

The music and the flowers were beautiful. The memorial was pretty and it was heart wrenching to see a family lost in misery. So sad that things had to turn out so bad. I wish that they would not have had to endure such awfulness. I would wish this on no one.

Turning to comments made by Jose Baez in a small press conference the day before, Casey stated that she cannot stop what her parents are doing. Today during the time of the memorial the prison officials were going to allow Casey time out to see the memorial, she did refuse, and visited with Jose Baez during that time. I am sure that it may have been watched via his computer?

It is too bad that Casey refused to watch the memorial. It is too bad that she did not want to pick music or flowers. It’s too bad that Casey felt so cold. In this the very last time to say good bye to the child we all have come to love.

Thank you Anthony family for the memorial. We’re so sorry for your loss in so many ways. God Bless you all in your journey ahead. Thank you too for giving this child a day full of grace and dignity.

Just my thoughts, just my opinions, and always in a conversationalTone.

Mary Caliendo


6 responses to “Moving Memorial For Caylee Anthony

  1. º~•° BEE§ KNEE§ °•~º

    Now that the organized and televised Casey Love-fest is behind us let’s concentrate on justice for Caylee. I think yesterday’s sham set us back a few points but let’s get over it and move forward again!

  2. BeesKnees, Here!Here! I heard it mentioned by someone yesterday that for some reason this family has the incredible ability to create drama! It was also said that unfortunatly this was a way to convey to the public that Casey is very human and is to be loved. Thus, again trying to create a personna for their daughter even when they know in their hearts that she did this.
    Just my thoughts, just my opinions, and always in a conversationalTone.
    Mary Caliendo

  3. º~•° BEE§ KNEE§ °•~º

    I would like to know if the people defending the Anthonys yesterday would like to have their sentiments read out in court helping Casey win a not Guilty verdict. I mean that respectfully. If their sentiments about Casey being a loving mother could sway the jury would that be okay?

  4. BeesKnees, I think that people would agree that defense lawyers that defend the worst of them all, will do most anything to help their cases. Even filtering messages at a memorial service!You would also agree that christian people need to have at least a sliver of compassion. My own personal compassion is that Casey if proven guilty will deserve and get whatever the law says she should! And I’m fine with that. I would not want to walk in their shoes! I know that no matter what anyone can say just about anything, they cannot refute the evidense!
    Just my thoughts, just my opinions, and always in a conversationalTone.
    Mary Caliendo

  5. I’m so hoping you are right Mary. What on earth will we do if she gets off like OJ did??? It happens!

  6. Bees Knees, Oh I don’t want to think about that! I am hoping that all of the evidense will be undeniable! I do not think Baez is at the top of the list in lawyer-dom!! With fingers and toes crossed, thing is that it may take forever to get the trial even started!
    Just my thoughts, just my opinions, and always in a conversationalTone.
    Mary Caliendo

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